Responses When an Individual Encounters Aggression
You’ve probably heard of the classic “fight or flight” response—either confronting a threat head-on or escaping from it entirely. But these aren’t the only ways living beings react to aggression. There are two lesser-known but equally important responses: “freeze” and “fawn.” Freezing is exactly what it sounds like—remaining still, showing no reaction, and avoiding any behavior that might provoke further aggression. Fawning, on the other hand, is a strategy of appeasement—displaying submission, seeking approval, and attempting to placate the aggressor in hopes of diffusing the conflict. While these responses are often discussed in human psychology, they are just as relevant in understanding how dogs react to tense social situations, such as witnessing an argument between their owners.
What happens after the conflict ends is just as important as the argument itself. Since everyone involved is part of the same household, they must continue interacting with both the aggressor and the victim, leading to different possible behavioral responses. One approach is to stick close to the aggressor, displaying submissive or appeasing behavior in an attempt to stay on their good side. Another is to gravitate toward the victim, offering comfort and emotional support. Some may opt for avoidance altogether, distancing themselves from one or both individuals—whether that means physically leaving or simply withdrawing emotionally. It’s worth noting that these reactions can be observed in both children and dogs, even when they weren’t directly involved in the dispute, highlighting the broader psychological effects of family tension.
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